Bridges on Proverbs 23:1-3
 
 
Charles Bridges on Proverbs 23:1-3
 
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1.  When thou sittest to eat with a ruler, consider diligently what is before thee: 2.  And put a knife to thy throat, if thou be a man given to appetite. 3.  Be not desirous of his dainties: for they are deceitful meat.
 
THE book of God is our rule of practice, not less than of faith. It enforces religion not only in our religious, but in our natural, actions. (1 Corinthians 10:31.) It directs in the daily details of common life. Suppose we are invited, in the way of Providence, to the table of a man of rank — how wise the caution — Consider diligently what is before thee! Think where you are; what is the besetting temptation; what impression your conduct is likely to make. Wantonness of appetite, or levity of manner, gives a plausible ground of prejudice to the ungodly, or “stumbling to the weak.”
But after all, ourselves are mainly concerned. May not the luxuries of the table spread before us stir up disproportionate indulgence? The rule is plain and urgent. If thou art conscious of being given to appetite, making it thy first object and delight, — bridle it as by violence. (Matthew 18:8, 9.) Act as if a knife was at thy throat. Be stern and resolute with thyself. Give no quarter to the lust. Resist every renewed indulgence. The dainties are deceitful meat, sometimes from the insincerity of the host; always from the disappointment of the anticipated pleasure. (Ecclesiastes 2:10, 11.) To use them may be lawful. To be desirous of them is fearfully dangerous.
Who that knows his own weakness will deem this caution needless? Alas! was not “the lust of the flesh” the first inlet to that sin, which has overwhelmed us all? (Genesis 3:6.) Often has it tarnished a Christian profession, and damped the liveliness of spiritual apprehensions and enjoyments. If Christ's disciples, conversant only with mean and homely fare, needed a caution to “take heed;” much more must it apply to a ruler's table, where everything ministers to the temptation.
It is man's high prerogative to “have dominion over the creature.” It is his shame therefore, that the creature in any form should have dominion over him. God gives us our body to feed, not to pamper; to be the servant, not the master, of the soul. He gives bread for our necessities, man craves “meat for his lust.” We are to “make provision” for the wants, not “for the lusts, of the flesh.” (Romans 13:14.) And surely a soul, that “puts on the Lord Jesus Christ,” can never degrade itself to be a purveyor of the flesh. If a heathen could say, ‘I am greater and born to greater things than to be the servant of my body’ — is it not a shame for a Christian, born as he is, the heir of an everlasting crown, to be the slave of his carnal indulgences?
To go as near as we can to the bounds of intemperance, is to incur imminent danger of exceeding. ‘He that takes his full liberty in what he may, shall repent him.’ Temptation presses hard. Then put the strongest guard at this weak point. ‘Curb thy desires, though they be somewhat importunate, and thou shalt find in time incredible benefit by it.’ Take the prayer of our Church — ‘Grant unto us such abstinence, that our flesh being subdued unto the spirit, we may ever obey thy godly motions.’ Connect with it the resolution of one Apostle — “I keep under my body, and bring it into subjection” (1 Corinthians 9:27) — and the rule of another — “Add to your faith temperance.” (2 Peter 1:5, 6.) This practical warfare will break the power of many a strong temptation, and triumph over the flesh gloriously.
 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
1 Corinthians 10:31
31 Whether therefore ye eat, or drink, or whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God.
 
 
Footnote:
1 Corinthians 8:9. Romans 14:21.
 

 
1 Corinthians 8:9
9 But take heed lest by any means this liberty of yours become a stumblingblock to them that are weak. {liberty: or, power}
 
Romans 14:21
21 It is good neither to eat flesh, nor to drink wine, nor any thing whereby thy brother stumbleth, or is offended, or is made weak.
 
 
Matthew 18:8, 9
8 Wherefore if thy hand or thy foot offend thee, cut them off, and cast them from thee: it is better for thee to enter into life halt or maimed, rather than having two hands or two feet to be cast into everlasting fire. 9 And if thine eye offend thee, pluck it out, and cast it from thee: it is better for thee to enter into life with one eye, rather than having two eyes to be cast into hell fire.
 
 
Footnote:
Verse 31. Psalm 141:4.
 

 
Proverbs 23:31
31 Look not thou upon the wine when it is red, when it giveth his colour in the cup, when it moveth itself aright.
 
Psalm 141:4
4 Incline not my heart to any evil thing, to practise wicked works with men that work iniquity: and let me not eat of their dainties.
 
 
Footnote:
Verses 6-8.
 

 
Proverbs 23:6-8
6 ¶ Eat thou not the bread of him that hath an evil eye, neither desire thou his dainty meats: 7 For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he: Eat and drink, saith he to thee; but his heart is not with thee. 8 The morsel which thou hast eaten shalt thou vomit up, and lose thy sweet words.
 
 
Ecclesiastes 2:10, 11
10 And whatsoever mine eyes desired I kept not from them, I withheld not my heart from any joy; for my heart rejoiced in all my labour: and this was my portion of all my labour. 11 Then I looked on all the works that my hands had wrought, and on the labour that I had laboured to do: and, behold, all was vanity and vexation of spirit, and there was no profit under the sun.
 
 
Genesis 3:6
6 ¶ And when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree to be desired to make one wise, she took of the fruit thereof, and did eat, and gave also unto her husband with her; and he did eat. {pleasant: Heb. a desire}
 
 
Footnote:
1 Corinthians 11:21. Philippians 3:18, 19. Jude 12, 13.
 

 
1 Corinthians 11:21
21 For in eating every one taketh before other his own supper: and one is hungry, and another is drunken.
 
Philippians 3:18, 19
18 (For many walk, of whom I have told you often, and now tell you even weeping, that they are the enemies of the cross of Christ: 19 Whose end is destruction, whose God is their belly, and whose glory is in their shame, who mind earthly things.)
 
Jude 12, 13
12 These are spots in your feasts of charity, when they feast with you, feeding themselves without fear: clouds they are without water, carried about of winds; trees whose fruit withereth, without fruit, twice dead, plucked up by the roots; 13 Raging waves of the sea, foaming out their own shame; wandering stars, to whom is reserved the blackness of darkness for ever.
 
 
Footnote:
Genesis 25:28; 27:4, with 26-29.
 

 
Genesis 25:28
28 And Isaac loved Esau, because he did eat of his venison: but Rebekah loved Jacob. {he...: Heb. venison was in his mouth}
 
Genesis 27:4
4 And make me savoury meat, such as I love, and bring it to me, that I may eat; that my soul may bless thee before I die.
 
with
Genesis 27:26-29
26 And his father Isaac said unto him, Come near now, and kiss me, my son. 27 And he came near, and kissed him: and he smelled the smell of his raiment, and blessed him, and said, See, the smell of my son is as the smell of a field which the LORD hath blessed: 28 Therefore God give thee of the dew of heaven, and the fatness of the earth, and plenty of corn and wine: 29 Let people serve thee, and nations bow down to thee: be lord over thy brethren, and let thy mother's sons bow down to thee: cursed be every one that curseth thee, and blessed be he that blesseth thee.
 
 
Footnote:
Luke 21:34.
 

 
Luke 21:34
34 And take heed to yourselves, lest at any time your hearts be overcharged with surfeiting, and drunkenness, and cares of this life, and so that day come upon you unawares.
 
 
Footnote:
Genesis 1:26, 28; 9:2
 

 
Genesis 1:26, 28
26 ¶ And God said, Let us make man in our image, after our likeness: and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth. 29 ¶ And God said, Behold, I have given you every herb bearing seed, which is upon the face of all the earth, and every tree, in the which is the fruit of a tree yielding seed; to you it shall be for meat. {bearing...: Heb. seeding seed} {yielding...: Heb. seeding seed}
 
Genesis 9:2
2 And the fear of you and the dread of you shall be upon every beast of the earth, and upon every fowl of the air, upon all that moveth upon the earth, and upon all the fishes of the sea; into your hand are they delivered.
 
 
Footnote:
Matthew 6:11, 25-33.
 

 
Matthew 6:11, 25-33
11 Give us this day our daily bread. 25 ¶ Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the body than raiment? 26 Behold the fowls of the air: for they sow not, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feedeth them. Are ye not much better than they? 27 Which of you by taking thought can add one cubit unto his stature? 28 And why take ye thought for raiment? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow; they toil not, neither do they spin: 29 And yet I say unto you, That even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these. 30 Wherefore, if God so clothe the grass of the field, which to day is, and to morrow is cast into the oven, shall he not much more clothe you, O ye of little faith? 31 Therefore take no thought, saying, What shall we eat? or, What shall we drink? or, Wherewithal shall we be clothed? 32 (For after all these things do the Gentiles seek:) for your heavenly Father knoweth that ye have need of all these things. 33 But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
 
 
Footnote:
Psalm 78:18.
 

 
Psalm 78:18
18 And they tempted God in their heart by asking meat for their lust.
 
 
Romans 13:14
14 But put ye on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make not provision for the flesh, to fulfil the lusts thereof.
 
 
Footnote:
Seneca.
 
 
Footnote:
Bishop Hall's Works, viii. 101. ‘If I see any dish to tempt my palate, I fear a serpent in that apple, and would please myself in a willful denial.’ – Ib. Ep. Decad. vi. Ep. i.
 
 
Footnote:
Bp. Sanderson's Sermon on Psalm 19:13.
 

 
Psalm 19:13
13 Keep back thy servant also from presumptuous sins; let them not have dominion over me: then shall I be upright, and I shall be innocent from the great transgression. {the great: or, much}
 
 
Footnote:
Collect for the first Sunday in Lent.
 
 
1 Corinthians 9:27
27 But I keep under my body, and bring it into subjection: lest that by any means, when I have preached to others, I myself should be a castaway.
 
 
2 Peter 1:5, 6
5 ¶ And beside this, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue; and to virtue knowledge; 6 And to knowledge temperance; and to temperance patience; and to patience godliness;
 
Footnote:
Daniel 1:8. Compare Augustine's ingenuous and instructive Confessions, book x. c. 31.
 

 
 
Daniel 1:8
8 ¶ But Daniel purposed in his heart that he would not defile himself with the portion of the king's meat, nor with the wine which he drank: therefore he requested of the prince of the eunuchs that he might not defile himself.